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What is the new swinger symbol? ›

color-coded loofahs are the new signal for swingers! Move over, upside down pineapples! There's a new symbol to tell people you're into swinging: Color-coded loofahs! Purple, turquoise, and orange loofahs hang from a silver rack against tile in the bathroom.

"Soft-swinging" describes having non-penetrative sexual relations outside of one's marriage or primary relationship, according to Engle. The sex educator went on to say people in the swingers' community use the term "soft" swap to denote when they switch partners to kiss or have oral sex but not penetrative sex.

If you are new to non-monogamy, you've probably heard the term 'unicorn' being bandied about in the swinging and polyamory communities, referring to a person (most commonly a single, bisexual woman) who is willing to join an existing couple.

Unicorn/Dragon:a bisexual, polyamorous woman/man who is open to forming a triad with an established couple; referred to as these mythical creatures because these type of partners are extremely rare. (Though some women/men openly use the term unicorn/dragon for themselves, it is frowned upon for couples to do so.

Dr. Chavez explained swinging can strengthen certain relationships because for some, “monogamy puts too much pressure on one partner to meet all of their needs.” In those cases, “opening up becomes a way to meet other needs, while still committing to a primary relationship with your partner.”

Swinging is a form of non-monogamy and is an open relationship. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Practitioners cite an increased quality and quantity of sex. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or due to their curiosity.

When a child swings, their heart rate increases, and oxygen flow to the brain improves, leading to a more alert and focused state of mind. The physical benefits of swinging can also lead to better sleep, improved brain function, and memory retention.

Practitioners cite an increased quality and quantity of sex. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or due to their curiosity. Some couples see swinging as a healthy outlet and means to strengthen their relationship.

And the vast majority of both men and women report an increase of happiness and satisfaction in their relationship after they start swinging. The lifestyle requires being able to be completely open and honest with your partner.